Do You Really Know How to Please a Woman?

Just picture it. You are at the bar and that sexy little number with the naughty schoolgirl outfit has been giving you the eye all night long. You know you could hit that with very little effort and you soon start to dream of all the things you could do to her once you got her back to her place. But, would you really know what to do with Miss Hotty if you really did manage to get beneath her skirt? If you are like most of us, you probably don’t even have a clue. Sure, we all talk like we are the king in the sack, but the reality is that most of us wouldn’t know what to do with wet pussy if it hit us upside the head. So, sit back and take some bedroom advice that comes directly from the source.

Mix It Up

“I hate it when a guy does the same old thing every time you hit the sack,” says Melanie. “I like a guy to mix it up a little. You know, sometimes it is sweet and romantic and other times he pounds you like a little whore.”

Of course, if we are talking about a one-nighter here, you don’t have to worry about mixing it up from time to time. Just find what you are good at and show off the moves to your one night conquest. If you are in a long-term relationship, on the other hand, try to avoid getting in a rut.

Guys tend to do the same thing every time they get between the sheets. After all, you have found what works for you and it gets you off, so why make a change? Unfortunately, the same isn’t true with women. Most women I have talked to want you to change it up a little rather than sticking to the same old routine. This doesn’t mean you need to hang from the chandeliers or break out with a ball gag each time you hook up, but try to vary the mood and the action in order to keep your girl interested.

Warm Her Up

If you are a bad lover, you will be getting off right at about the time your girl is ready to get going. Treat your woman like that old classic car you love so much - don’t hop in, turn the key and hit the gas. Rather, start her up, give her a rub down and check her gauges to make sure she is ready to go.

Many guys dread the thought of having to engage in foreplay. After all, you don’t need time to get warmed up. A couple touches in a few key places and you’re ready to go. With women, however, you need to take a little more time to get her ready. This doesn’t mean you have to munch her all night long before you can finally slip it to her. But, try kissing her for awhile and rubbing on the outside of her panties before you slip a finger inside and primer her engine. You will know she is ready when she starts to get moist and her clitoris starts to become engorged.

Spend Some Time with the Little Man in the Boat

Speaking of the clitoris, be certain to give the little fella some of your attention. The reality is that many women can’t get off without having a certain amount of clitoral stimulation. Remember that girl in the naughty school girl outfit? A girl in a skirt offers great opportunities for a little clit action before going in. Slip your hand up beneath her skirt and rub her clit through her panties in a circular fashion, starting off nice and slow and then working your way up to a higher speed while increasing the pressure. By the time you are ready to slip those panties off, they will be soaking wet and she will be ready to jump your bones.

Work the Titties

“I hate it when guys jump right in and start mauling all over my breasts,” complains Melissa. “I mean, I’m into boob action, but there is a right time and a wrong time, you know?”

No, I don’t know. But, when I asked Melissa and the other girls I talked to about where things stand with the boobs, I found that playing with those lovely lumps is something you should work your way into. In other words, if you start sucking and nibbling on her nipples before she has been heated up, it may not be a turn on at all. In fact, some women find it to be a turn off. “It’s too much like breastfeeding - it hurts,” complained one woman.

When you get her motor revving before you move in for the tits, on the other hand, something magical happens. For some reason, most of the women I talked to said that playing with their tits after they have been warmed up is a real turn on. Some even said sucking on their tits is one way to push them over the pleasure plateau - but only if it is done after they are good and worked up.

So, although you may be anxious to just grab that little hottie at the bar and have your way with it, remember that the ladies talk to each other and that a shitty role in the hay may get you blackballed on many lists. Take your time and make sure you leave her something to remember you by - even if you never plan on hooking up with the same girl twice.